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Post by bernie on Apr 10, 2020 5:26:35 GMT
My son queued up yesterday to buy dog and cat food at B&M. He said people were coming out with garden stuff, flat pack furniture, paint. Now why should my son risk his life to queue up with these people?
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Post by givingitsomethought on Apr 10, 2020 5:54:59 GMT
My son queued up yesterday to buy dog and cat food at B&M. He said people were coming out with garden stuff, flat pack furniture, paint. Now why should my son risk his life to queue up with these people? This is what my friend and I were moaning about yesterday, Bernie. We both have kids who are higher risk and who will be at the back of the queue for a ventilator should that be necessary so we've been indoors and won't be going anywhere for who knows how long. Our kids haven't moaned one single time. Knowing that (a) they might be in longer than necessary because of the holiday shoppers and (b) someone who's ignored the advice and got unwell would be given priority over them because they're fit and healthy really sticks with both of us. It tells you a lot about human behaviour, I think.
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Post by bernie on Apr 10, 2020 8:53:11 GMT
My son queued up yesterday to buy dog and cat food at B&M. He said people were coming out with garden stuff, flat pack furniture, paint. Now why should my son risk his life to queue up with these people? This is what my friend and I were moaning about yesterday, Bernie. We both have kids who are higher risk and who will be at the back of the queue for a ventilator should that be necessary so we've been indoors and won't be going anywhere for who knows how long. Our kids haven't moaned one single time. Knowing that (a) they might be in longer than necessary because of the holiday shoppers and (b) someone who's ignored the advice and got unwell would be given priority over them because they're fit and healthy really sticks with both of us. It tells you a lot about human behaviour, I think. I agree, its been my experience in life that people who disregard one rule generally disregard others. So the people that are out to buy non essentials are probably the same people who are not social distancing, going round the back door of the pub for lock ins etc. Everybody seems to think they are a special case and rules are for other people. I have not been the most conformist person in my life but I don't think my transgressions have ever killed anybody.
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Post by bigbear67 on Apr 10, 2020 10:10:31 GMT
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Post by wanderingwill on Apr 10, 2020 13:08:11 GMT
make sure you read all of this otherwise, you will be upset by my comment....... I'm not a dog lover as most on here probably know ..so as an example of what I mean I don't see dog food as essential it's all so we could all have different ideas about deciding what is essential .. one example is are you going to the nearest supermarket a 2 miles away or are you travelling 15 miles to another one..you could be turned around and sent to your nearest one .. this has been happening if people don't follow the rules they will introduce more rules THIS IS ONLY MY OPINION.. another one is adverts on Facebook market place and going to pick up cars and motorbikes over long distances unfortunately the twats in this world will fuck it up for all of us
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Post by bigbear67 on Apr 10, 2020 13:26:30 GMT
Should I report these two for not social distancing?! Spotted them on my morning walk....
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Post by givingitsomethought on Apr 10, 2020 13:48:21 GMT
make sure you read all of this otherwise, you will be upset by my comment....... I'm not a dog lover as most on here probably know ..so as an example of what I mean I don't see dog food as essential it's all so we could all have different ideas about deciding what is essential .. one example is are you going to the nearest supermarket a 2 miles away or are you travelling 15 miles to another one..you could be turned around and sent to your nearest one .. this has been happening if people don't follow the rules they will introduce more rules THIS IS ONLY MY OPINION.. another one is adverts on Facebook market place and going to pick up cars and motorbikes over long distances unfortunately the twats in this world will fuck it up for all of us I agree with you, Will, different things are essential for different people but as you say, some people are just pushing it to the nth degree, I just glanced through the paper now and there are apparently people all over the beach in Brighton and the London parks are full again. It's a lot to do with where you are, I think - a friend of mine is in a very rural spot and has been taking his dog for three hour walks while on lockdown and in that time might see two other people two fields away, so he can do that and he's not causing anyone any bother, plus he's very scrupulous about hygiene and safety. I sat on my front step and had a nice chat with my neighbour this morning who was in her garden, must be twelve feet between us so no chance of passing anything back and forth. It will be tougher for people in big towns and cities as there are so many squished in together and very hard without a garden, especially if you have kids, but like you say, they will lockdown tighter if people don't rein it in a bit.
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Post by VanWoman84 on Apr 10, 2020 15:18:59 GMT
wanderingwill, dog food is essential in some circumstances. We have loads of food in stock, and our dogs usually don't eat dog food. BUT! If we fed the four dogs our food, the food would run out pretty quick with six of us eating it. So a huge bag of dog food was the nearest I got to panic buying. givingitsomethought when I go out with the dogs I usually don't see another soul. Now I am sick of tripping over little kids with their families and people pushing prams. Not to mention the lycra louts on bikes. Who are these people?? I never saw them before!
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Post by wanderingwill on Apr 10, 2020 15:23:26 GMT
wanderingwill , dog food is essential in some circumstances. We have loads of food in stock, and our dogs usually don't eat dog food. BUT! If we fed the four dogs our food, the food would run out pretty quick with six of us eating it. So a huge bag of dog food was the nearest I got to panic buying. givingitsomethought when I go out with the dogs I usually don't see another soul. Now I am sick of tripping over little kids with their families and people pushing prams. Not to mention the lycra louts on bikes. Who are these people?? I never saw them before! i was only using the dog food thing as an example of what i mean vw..
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Post by VanWoman84 on Apr 10, 2020 15:31:34 GMT
wanderingwill I see your point, but dog food is a bad example. By law, if you keep an animal of any kind you have a duty of care towards it. Obviously if you don't have a dog it is not an essential purchase
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Post by NomadCris on Apr 10, 2020 15:38:33 GMT
I suppose it ultimately comes down to what is important in life and what is important to an individuals life that makes it a life and not just an existence. Cats and dogs and other pets are not just pets but part of the family to most owners, an important family member or their only companions.
My animals are my priority,if theyve no food i have to get it,i can and will survive on fuck all if i need to,to keep them in good health.
Maybe thats a warped perspective for some but its the only perspective that matters to me and if i didnt have them to worry about i wouldnt bother doing much at all.
You could apply the same argument to old people,what use are we,we cant work and a huge drain on the health and care services and the country and its finances. Why do people need second homes and holiday homes and leisure vehicles and craft? But for most people they are a major part of their life and the purpose and rewards of their otherwise tedious toil in life.
At the end of the day this crisis will disappear and life will return to some degree of the normality it was previously, we have to preserve what we have now and pick up pieces of what's left afterwards.
There have always been people who act selfishly,disregard laws and rules or take advantage of situations to profit and exploit from it,why would this be any different?
People for the most part are trying to protect their families in the way they feel they have to or must even if thats not correct assumption and when they see Government ministers and senior advisors and rich elite doing the exact same thing -running away to safe havens- theyre going to do the same too.
If people are being allowed to shop for garden products and furniture and paint and motor parts then thats the fault of the stores allowing it because profits are more important than peoples safety.
Theres only a shortage in supermarkets because they allowed wholesale panic buying to go on instead of restricting what quantities people bought because again they were happy to see billions of ££s of sales go through the tills when they were going into recessive trading. Now its totally fucked up.
The Government and supermarkets have ANPR everywhere,they know what vehicles go where and could easily control movements by imposing big postal fines on people who travel beyond a reasonable local distance. They could close parks or beaches but they dont. They could use the army and police more heavy handedly as they ought to but they dont,because politically it will damage Tory interests..What else are people going to do but what they can to carry on as best they can and exploit the situation.
One good thing about the virus is its brought society closer and theres more kindness and concern for others that Brexit managed to rip apart.Its only a comparative minority who choose to ignore the rules.
But,its made it more obvious to me that our alternative 'hippy' community is even more like the mainstream than it ever was and everyone in it would be -or is -running away if they can afford to or doing what they can to preserve their lifes routine.
I know I dont belong in it anymore than i belong in mainstream society. Its all full of hypocrisy and dodgy judgementalism.
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Post by VanWoman84 on Apr 10, 2020 16:08:23 GMT
But,its made it more obvious to me that our alternative 'hippy' community is even more like the mainstream than it ever was. I dont belong in it anymore. What makes you say that?
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Post by NomadCris on Apr 10, 2020 16:18:28 GMT
For the reasons ive given already. Youll read the exact same whining and spitting in the Daily Mail or the Sun or Mirror or Star or any other mainstream media or social media. I hear the exact same from people i talk to who are very much part of mainstream. 'We' are just a reflection of mainstream in microcosm. There is no hippy or alternative community in reality,we just kid ourselves that one exists.
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Post by VanWoman84 on Apr 10, 2020 16:25:03 GMT
I thought you were talking generally, not about 'us'
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Post by bernie on Apr 10, 2020 16:52:01 GMT
If you have a dog you must feed it
Whether everybody should have the automatic right to own a dog is a different issue
I am not the best at sticking to the rules but when the rules are so clearly based on keeping people safe I don't see why so many people are going out of way to try and bend them.
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