So a long time ago,I had a baby,a son.Due to circumstances,I decided to have the baby adopted when I was 5 mths pregnant.Years later,I re united with my son,who is now 35yrs old!We've been in contact for a long time (Since he was 18)and met several times,skype eachother ect.We've developed a pretty close r/ship during this time. Over the years,its been suggested by his parents that we meet up.Well last night it happened! They're over here from Australia for a longish holiday.It was abit of a surreal experience.I had decided before meeting that I did'nt want to discuss the adoption and how I felt about it.For me,its in the past,and I tend to live more in the present.However my son's Mum I think needed to talk about it so we did.I was fine,she became pretty teary,but in all it was a good meeting.They're real nice folks,totally what I expected too.Hopefully before they head back home,we'll meet up again.I had my own hesitations of meeting,and had to give it quite alot of deep thought before I decided to go ahead with it.Sometimes you have to put your own needs behind someone else's,and I'm glad I did.
lol Yeah it worked out fine!Tbh I was'nt too fussed about meeting them.It happened such a long time ago,and I had already moved forward way beforehand.They are quite alot older than me,so I guess it was important for them hey?
Thanks BB!Figured I'd have a change,hoping the weather will heat up!lol After they adopted my son,they went on to have their own son 5 yrs later!He lives in the UK,so I think they're struggling with it a little which is understandable.