Gentlemen and ladies on the community who have my pictures, how would you describe me physically speaking? Am I attractive, beautiful or hot in your eyes? Because I’m struggling to understand my attractiveness to others, both same and opposite sex? I’m confused about it totally as I don’t even consider myself or others as human beings, but rather as “entities”, “things” and “parts” because I also severely from dissociative cognitive disorders. I consider myself also agender and don’t tend to see men as men and women as women, not even my own person as human being.
Attraction is really subjective. One person could say you were good looking, another would say you weren't their type. Then again, somebody could find you attractive, yet you are completely different to the type of person they are usually attracted to. It's complicated.
Attractiveness depends on personality. I cannot tell from a photo of anybody if they are attractive or not, I need to speak to that person or see how they are with other people before I can make that judgement. What a person looks like has very little to do with it.
If I care about somebody, they are beautiful / handsome/ whatever. If they are cruel, unkind or narcissistic, they will be ugly in my eyes; I truly find attraction only when somebody shows their soul. That being said Naiwen, although I don’t know you, your features are pleasing to the eye, I don’t see why anyone would not find you attractive 😊
Post by itinerantchild on Dec 9, 2020 19:36:43 GMT
You should not be worrying about what others think of you,its what you think of you that matters.
Beauty always shines through more with a smile so if you want more people to find you attractive try smiling more,if you dont then put on a grumpy face. Mostly people get attracted to who you are when your charecter shines through,and if someone is just going to judge you for how you look then caution could be called for as that is more of a sexual attraction than an attraction to who you are.
As vw said it is a complicated thing and as parrotandcrow said its hard to tell from a photo , especially from a selfie which is one of the worst types of photo's to catch you looking natural.
Personally I do not find you hot or sexy looking but I am not looking for that and at my age and who I am I would not be happy with myself for finding a girl your age sexy or hot.That is nothing against how you look, thats just where I am coming from.
There was a photo you took a couple of weeks ago where you had a small secret smile on your face and I will honestly say that is the one in your collection that I find to be the prettiest.
Do try and remember, its what you think of you that counts xx