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Post by NomadCris on Dec 9, 2019 22:28:47 GMT
Having unexpected visitors drives me wild,i dont care who they are or how well i know them.
I dont just drop in unannounced on folks its just rude in my opinion.
Everyone deals differently with solitude or company, I just happen to prefer solitude.
Friends are usually a good thing - if the friendship isnt all one sided and exploitative or run away when things get difficult - but doesnt mean you cant live a perfectly good happy life without company and all on your own.
Humans and social interactive creatures,its how weve become the dominant species but we arent clones of each other.
Modern society has conditioned us all that living alone or being a loner means youre a danger to society and a weirdo.
Maybe it is weird to be fiercely independent and self reliant and to prefer doing things for yourself and pleasing yourself but thats how i prefer my life.
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Post by bernie on Dec 10, 2019 23:02:21 GMT
Having unexpected visitors drives me wild,i dont care who they are or how well i know them. I dont just drop in unannounced on folks its just rude in my opinion. That's classic paranoia my ex was like that. It shouldn't upset you even if you think "OH F.... what now?" But she would go into one and be rude to them |
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Post by NomadCris on Dec 11, 2019 1:13:16 GMT
Oh so youre a professional psychiatrist now as well as an arrogant arse.
Ive never been rude to visitors even if i didnt want them there even if your wife was.Thats her issue and yours not mine.
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Post by VanWoman84 on Dec 11, 2019 10:46:32 GMT
I didn't read bernie's post like that NomadCris. Bernie was just relating to his ex. That's how I read it anyway. |
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Post by bernie on Dec 11, 2019 22:29:02 GMT
Oh so youre a professional psychiatrist now as well as an arrogant arse. Ive never been rude to visitors even if i didnt want them there even if your wife was.Thats her issue and yours not mine. Get over it, take a deep breath and count to ten, then come out smiling. I have been insulted by experts you are not even going to hit first base Now, can we start again? hows your day been? |
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Post by cornishharry on Dec 12, 2019 0:44:37 GMT
oh wow i,m a classic paranoiac, thanks doctor bernie for enlightening me
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Post by cricket on Dec 12, 2019 6:22:07 GMT
Having unexpected visitors drives me wild,i dont care who they are or how well i know them. I dont just drop in unannounced on folks its just rude in my opinion. That's classic paranoia my ex was like that. It shouldn't upset you even if you think "OH F.... what now?" But she would go into one and be rude to them So your saying Bernie. that you think fit to judge anothers need to have due respect shown of their time,space and life as a psychiatric illness?Have you seen anyone about belligerent, egotistical delusions lately?I note it was an ex that wanted respect from others.  |
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Post by cricket on Dec 12, 2019 6:24:32 GMT
Oh so youre a professional psychiatrist now as well as an arrogant arse. Ive never been rude to visitors even if i didnt want them there even if your wife was.Thats her issue and yours not mine. Get over it, take a deep breath and count to ten, then come out smiling. I have been insulted by experts you are not even going to hit first base Now, can we start again? hows your day been? Patronising and belittling a person for disagreeing with you.What a fkg awful human you are Bernie. |
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Post by cricket on Dec 12, 2019 6:28:27 GMT
Having unexpected visitors drives me wild,i dont care who they are or how well i know them. I dont just drop in unannounced on folks its just rude in my opinion. That's classic paranoia my ex was like that. It shouldn't upset you even if you think "OH F.... what now?" But she would go into one and be rude to them why shouldnt she if these people did not give her the respect of notice so that she could plan her time?Why should someone stop their day because another person landed without notice?The person landing like that is assuming a role of dominating behaviour. |
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Post by NomadCris on Dec 14, 2019 12:55:26 GMT
Oh so youre a professional psychiatrist now as well as an arrogant arse. Ive never been rude to visitors even if i didnt want them there even if your wife was.Thats her issue and yours not mine. Get over it, take a deep breath and count to ten, then come out smiling. I have been insulted by experts you are not even going to hit first base Now, can we start again? hows your day been? Yeah we can start again...bu-bye |
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Post by cricket on Dec 14, 2019 14:56:07 GMT
Bernie,NomadiCris has had a very long career as a very skilled medical person,Had you had the same background your view may have had some points worth further discussion.Still your behaviour is derisive and patronising.Such a nasty little sneery git arnt you.You are not even worth the dirt under NCs feet.
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Post by cricket on Dec 14, 2019 14:58:08 GMT
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Post by etherea on Dec 14, 2019 16:19:03 GMT
Oh wow! And I was having such a good day! On my own, no visitors, no judgement. Just thought I would say like!
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Post by cricket on Dec 14, 2019 18:30:46 GMT
Oh wow! And I was having such a good day! On my own, no visitors, no judgement. Just thought I would say like! How could my opinion of the disgraceful behaviour of one forum member to another have any impact on your day?If I see anyone unjustly being bullied I get my handbag out.The bigger the bully the more bricks I put in it.End of.Sorry if that bothers your fluffy cloud....not I am not actually.  WOW I have just discovered that I can "like"my own posts.Who needs positive affirmations when I can just like myself. |
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Post by etherea on Dec 15, 2019 22:25:51 GMT
I think you may have misinterpreted the sentiment behind my post
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